感謝辭 致讀者 前言 1. Competence Starts with Feeling Competent 自信源于感覺(jué) 2. It誷 Not How Hard You Try 成功不僅取決于努力 3. Creativity Comes from Within 內(nèi)生的創(chuàng)造力 4. Take Small Victories 在過(guò)程中體驗(yàn)快樂(lè) 5. You Can誸 Force Yourself to Like Broccoli 認(rèn)識(shí)你自己 6. Resist the Urge to Be Average 抵制從眾心理 7. There Is Plenty of Time 成功與年齡無(wú)關(guān) 8. It誷 Never Just One Thing 整體大于部分之和 9. Don誸 Keep Fighting Your First Battle 切忌固步自封 10. Change Is Possible, Not Easy 成也變革,敗也變革 11. Seek Input from Your Opposites 他山之石,可以攻玉 12. Write Down the Directions 行成于思,業(yè)精于錄 13. Anticipate Irrationality 對(duì)非理性要有所預(yù)見(jiàn) 14. The Best Defense Is to Listen 傾聽(tīng)逆耳忠言 15. Winners Are Made, Not Born 王侯將相,寧有種乎 16. Do Things in Order 按部就班 17. Get Experience Any Way You Can 多方體驗(yàn) 18. Self-Motivation Works Once 無(wú)志者常立志 19. Speak Slowly 談吐穩(wěn)健 20. Where You Stand Depends on Where You Look 橫看成嶺側(cè)成峰 21. Use Your Own Self-Interest 善待切身利益 22. Remember Who You Are and Where You Are 論角色轉(zhuǎn)換 23. Negotiate with Confidence, or Don誸 不自信的談判,莫如不談 24. Volunteer to Feel Better 志愿者行動(dòng)有益身心 25. Remember the Task, Forget the Rankings 重實(shí)質(zhì),輕虛名 26. Avoid the Second-Guess Paralysis 勿染事后假設(shè)之癖 27. Seek a Tall Plateau, Not the Peak 不是巔峰,勝似巔峰 28. Play the Odds 搶抓先機(jī) 29. The Past Is Not the Future 過(guò)去不能說(shuō)明未來(lái) 30. Get a Good Night誷 Sleep 睡個(gè)好覺(jué) 31. It Starts and Ends with You 你的信念決定了你能飛多高 32. Notice Patterns 善于觀察 33. Efficiency in Everything 效率優(yōu)先 34. Tomorrow Will Be a Better Day (But How Exactly?) 94 明天會(huì)更好(但究竟有多好?) 35. Lessons Can誸 Threaten 96 學(xué)習(xí)并非壞事 36. Success Is Formula, Not Fantasy 98 功到自然成 37. You Need to Know More Than Just How Talented You Are 100 自知資質(zhì)不足矣 38. Role Models Are Not One Size Fits All 102 偶像并非“四海皆準(zhǔn)” 39. Learn from Losses 106 從失敗中受益 40. Effibrace Work; It May Have to Last Forever 108 有所事事;與其相伴一生 41. Exercise and Eat Right 110 加強(qiáng)鍛煉,注意飲食 42. Boredom Is the Enemy 112 乏味即大敵 43. Be Clear About Your Role in the Outcome 114 明確個(gè)人在成果中的作用 44. Make Change Count 118 慎變 45. Listening Is More Than Not Talking 120 傾聽(tīng)不僅僅是沉默不語(yǔ) 46. Take Off Your Blinders 122 脫卻老生常談 47. You誰(shuí)l Get What You誶e Afraid Of 126 怕什么就有什么 48. Think About Who You Ought to Be 128 想一想自己本應(yīng)是誰(shuí) 49. Leadership Is Contagious 132 位居人上就要感召他人 50. Want Support? Deserve It 134 要贏得支持,就要受之無(wú)愧 51. You Will Give Up Faster if You誶e Not in Control 138 控制不住,放棄愈快 52. Life Is Not a Zero-Sum Game 142 生活不是零和游戲 53. You Don誸 Have to Get Straight A誷 Anymore 146 不再僅為滿分而奮斗了 54. Whet Your Appetite for Success 150 增強(qiáng)成功的欲望 55. Remember the Difference Between You and Everybody Else 154 記住你和他人的差別 56. Your Work and Home Lives Must Fit Together 156 工作和家庭生活必須相協(xié)調(diào) 57. Nobody Wins Without a Loser 158 一將功成萬(wàn)骨枯 58. Tell Clean Jokes 160 開(kāi)些得當(dāng)?shù)耐嫘?br />59. Don誸 Want Everything 162 不要貪得無(wú)厭 60. Look for Value 164 尋找忽略的價(jià)值 61. Get Your Motivation Where You Can Find It 168 人生動(dòng)力得其所 62. Be an Expert 172 成為專家 63. Failure Is Not Trying 176 失敗是因沒(méi)有嘗試 64. You Are Not in This Alone 180 同舟共進(jìn) 65. Your Goals Are a Living Thing 182 目標(biāo)是活的 66. Avoid Roller-Coaster Emotions 184 避免過(guò)山車式情緒 67. Care 186 關(guān)愛(ài) 68. You Can誸 Be Persistent Without Perspective 188 沒(méi)有遠(yuǎn)景哪能持之以恒 69. Changing Jobs Doesn誸 Change You 換工作又沒(méi)有換掉你自己 70. It Might Get Worse Before It Gets Better 黎明前的黑暗 71. If You Don誸 Believe, No One Else Will 如果你都不信,沒(méi)人會(huì)信 72. You誰(shuí)l Work Harder If You Feel Wanted 如果感到需要你就會(huì)努力工作 73. Don誸 Talk to Yourself 請(qǐng)勿自語(yǔ) 74. Seek Coherence and Congruence 尋求一致與和諧 75. If You Doubt, You誶e Out 你若猶豫不定就會(huì)出局 76. Always Think About What誷 Next 未雨綢繆 77. Value Practical Knowledge 珍惜實(shí)踐知識(shí) 78. See the Risk in Doing Nothing 看清無(wú)所事事的風(fēng)險(xiǎn) 79. Face Conflict Head-On 直面沖突 80. Money Isn誸 Everything 金錢并非一切 81. Be Realistic About Yourself 評(píng)價(jià)自己要切合實(shí)際 82. Find Your Own Path 走自己的路 83. Own What You Do 對(duì)自己負(fù)責(zé) 84. Be Honest for Your Future 誠(chéng)實(shí)地面對(duì)未來(lái) 85. You Need to Know What You Are Looking For 你需要知道你正找尋什么 86. Don誸 Forget Packaging 別忘了包裝 87. Learn to Lead Yourself 學(xué)會(huì)領(lǐng)導(dǎo)自己 88. A Victory at All Costs Is Not a Victory 取勝只是手段,遠(yuǎn)非目的 89. People Who Have It Right Work Harder to Make It Better 優(yōu)者恒優(yōu) 90. Don誸 Run in the Wrong Direction Just Because You誶e Near the Finish Line 不要將錯(cuò)就錯(cuò) 91. Hope Springs Internal 內(nèi)心涌動(dòng)希望 92. Think as if Others Can Read Your Mind 別人能讀懂你的心思 93. You誰(shuí)l Get Knocked Down and Then Get Back Up 被打倒,重新站起來(lái) 94. Keep Your Goals Where You Can See Them 把目標(biāo)置于你能看到它們的地方 95. Don誸 Settle 好之者不如樂(lè)之者 96. What Is the Point? 一生何求? 97. Win Your Own Respect First 首先贏得自尊 98. Your Goals Must Engage All of You 志業(yè)即天職 99. Take Action 采取行動(dòng) 100. Only You Can Say if This Is a World You Can Succeed In 你是自己生活世界的主人 譯者后記